What this house does not do
We are not a hotel
No front desk, no porter, no room service, no daily housekeeping and nobody in the building overnight.
37-44 61st Str, Woodside, NY 11377

Where this house stops
Drink at an event is brought in by you or by your caterer and served by them.
The house is not a licensed premises and nobody here holds a licence to sell alcohol. That is a real permission granted by the State and it is not something a guest house acquires by wanting to. What it means in practice is simple and it is not a problem: you buy the drink, or your caterer does, and there is no bar tab, no corkage and nothing sold on the premises.
A licence to sell alcohol is issued by the State, it is earned through an application and an inspection, and it belongs to a specific premises rather than to a building's owner in general. A guest house does not acquire one by describing itself well, and this site's whole approach to anything of that kind is to say plainly that the house holds none of it, rather than to write a sentence vague enough to leave the question open.
Guests in any apartment may keep and drink what they bring for themselves, exactly as in a rented flat; nothing about a licence bears on that, because nobody is selling anything to anybody. The question only becomes real when the house is hosting an occasion where drink is served to a wider group than the people who brought it — a wedding, a party, an offsite with an evening reception.
The distinction is scale rather than the drink itself. Two guests sharing a bottle of wine with their own dinner in the garden apartment are doing exactly what they would do in a rented flat anywhere else, and no licence question arises. A hundred guests at a reception, served from a table by staff working the room, is the shape of activity a licence exists to regulate — and it is also the shape this house was never going to be able to hold in the first place, which is why the boundary matters most on the one kind of booking that could otherwise be mistaken for a licensed venue.
The house is not a licensed venue and it does not hold a liquor licence, so drink is brought in by you or by your caterer and served by them. Nobody here can conduct a marriage. Music goes off at ten because of the neighbours, and that is a rule rather than a preference.
In practice that means the couple, the family, or their caterer buys the drink and pours it. There is no bar tab running on the house's account, no corkage charged for bringing your own bottle, and nothing sold across a counter anywhere in the building. A small wedding and a family gathering both explain how a caterer typically works inside that arrangement.
Most caterers who take on a private event like this already have their own arrangements for handling alcohol they have been asked to serve, and that arrangement is between the couple or family and the caterer, not something this house administers or takes a cut of. The house's part in it is limited to the building and the garden being available for whoever is doing the serving to use — a table to set up on, a kitchen to keep bottles cold in, and nothing more official than that.
The ceremony can still happen in the garden or the parlour, the meal can still be cooked in either kitchen and served at the long table, and the toast can still be made — somebody simply supplies and pours the glass rather than the house. Every kind of event this house takes is built around what the building can actually offer, and this is the one thing, named plainly, that it cannot. A couple planning a day here loses nothing about how the day feels; they simply arrange one more thing themselves, in the same way they would arrange flowers or music, rather than assuming it comes with the building.
The rest of the argument
What this house does not do
No front desk, no porter, no room service, no daily housekeeping and nobody in the building overnight.
What this house does not do
Book an apartment and you have that apartment. The other two may be let to somebody else on the same night, and usually are.
What this house does not do
The ceremony can happen in the garden or the parlour. The legal marriage is a separate thing and it is not ours.
What this house does not do
A 1912 house with a stoop and three floors. One apartment is nearly level; the other two are not.
What this house does not do
Three apartments and one house, and the calendar will not sell the same night twice.
What this house does not do
Nightly rate, cleaning fee, and nothing else. No resort fee, no service charge, no city surcharge invented at the end.
What this house does not do
An elevated railway four minutes away, a city garden, and a house in Queens.
The calendar is live. It shows what is free, it will not sell the same night twice, and it prints the whole total — cleaning fee included — before it asks for a name.